How to be a good kisser?

+20 votes
asked May 27, 2018 in Relationships by Sam33Q66266 (270 points)
edited Apr 2, 2019
I am a true believer that kissing can break or make a budding relationship. Oftentimes, the intimacy brought about by kissing gives you an idea about how deep you really care for each other. Unfortunately, I think I’m an awful kisser. Does anyone have any advice for me?

4 Answers

+28 votes
answered Jun 23, 2018 by Lakeshia (880 points)
edited Dec 3, 2018
There is only one thing to do to be a good kisser, that is, practice a lot. No kidding.

Kissing is a skill that only gets better the more you do it. It is not like something that you can improve on just by reading some tips from a book or from the internet. You still got to do it if you really want to become the next Casanova.

You can study about kissing techniques all you want, but in the end it’s going to be about how relax and comfortable you are executing it. If you have a partner who also loves to kiss then you’re in luck. Take every chance you got to lock lips and soon you’ll just feel that everything is falling into place.
+6 votes
answered Oct 18, 2018 by EmilioPartri (260 points)
edited Dec 30, 2018
You don’t have to read a lot of books or watch hours of film to be a good kisser. All you have to do is to just go with the flow and let your instinct guide you. Kissing is not like playing a piano where you got to study every note before you can play a song. By god, men and women has been doing it for eternity so be comfortable in the fact that you were not the first or the last person to screw up his first, second, or even third kiss. Just enjoy the moment and if your partner tells you that you don’t kiss like a pro, do it again just to remind her who’s the boss.
+3 votes
answered Jul 1, 2019 by MosheH930857 (440 points)
edited Jul 23, 2019
Like sex, kissing is sweeter if you are really into it. That is, you are doing it with someone you love, or at least someone you really like. I don’t really think that your partner will mind that you don’t have the best technique or style if he can sense that you are totally lost in kissing him. So stop worrying whether you are hitting the right spot or not, or if your lips are in the right position or not, just go in there and kiss your man like there is no tomorrow. I bet he will appreciate that more than anything else.
0 votes
answered Jul 9, 2019 by Vito81T75289 (830 points)
edited Aug 6, 2019
To be a good kisser you must have a feel on how your partner likes it. Don’t just dive into it like you are a sailor who has not kissed a woman for a decade. Some people like it slow while others like to go right into total intimacy. Give her a few moments to tell you how she likes it. Remember, it takes two people to kiss.
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