A lot of people worry that the spark and romance will disappear once you get married, and for couples who let it fizzle, this really can be a deal breaker. It doesn’t have to be like this though! You can and SHOULD still go on dates, but don’t leave this all up to him to plan! To be a good wife, you should plan some dates yourself to keep things from going stale. If you have a busy schedule, take a day off that your husband has off so you can spend some quality time together! This doesn’t mean abandon other things important in your life, but showing you put in extra effort can be just as meaningful as the actual time you spend together.