I know how hard it is to break up with someone you love so I feel for you. Having said that, I admire your stand of ending your relationship even though you know how painful it will be. But before you give him a call to arrange for a heart-to-heart talk, ask yourself these questions:
Are you absolutely sure that you cannot overcome those differences? Love conquers all, you know. Sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us and magnify everything when we are in love. Imagine throwing away the chance to be with someone you love just because you made a mountain out of a molehill.
Do you have second thoughts about breaking up? It is important that you are not entertaining any second thoughts about your decision to break up with him because you are holding not just your happiness in your hands, but also your boyfriend’s.
Having answered these questions honestly, I suggest that you sit with your boyfriend and talk. Tell him why you think your relationship is not going to work out and why you must go on your separate ways. Once you have settled things down, be firm and don’t allow him to change your mind.