I think many women, whose marriage has passed the 10-year point, would start to ask the question: how to get your husband to notice you. There is, albeit, no universal answer to this question. But you can never go wrong, at any point of your marriage, to spice up your sex life. The pitfall that every married couple must avoid is getting complacent in their sexual relationship. Just because you’ve been together for ten years under one roof doesn’t mean that you cannot have sex like before. Change things a bit to make your sexual encounter more exciting. For example, if you are content of your husband leading you to your peak, why not try to be the aggressive one? That will surprise him and perhaps, make him more excited. Also, experiment with different positions that you haven’t tried before. And if you and your hubby are open to the idea, you can try using sex toys to really up your game.
You don’t have to break the bed just to light up your sex life again. Just think of something that is out of your ordinary routine and do it. Don’t wait for your husband to surprise you, this time make the surprising yourself.