Why do some guys come so fast?

+55 votes
asked May 29, 2018 in Health & Wellness by Saskia (790 points)
edited Jan 3, 2019
Please don't bother asking me why I need an answer to this question, just give me the answer I need. I would really appreciate for your help.

3 Answers

+26 votes
answered Nov 3, 2018 by CedarHill (820 points)
edited Dec 13, 2018

Since you don't want to make more details available as to why you need these answers, I will give you some helpful ideas. It is called premature ejaculation in the medical world. Though no exact cause is known for it, the causes can vary from person to person and from situation to situation. There can be both physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.

Below is a list of some major causes.

1. Conditioning

Several doctors are of the opinion that experiencing sex early can have a major influence on ones sexual tendencies and abilities later in life. For instance, a masturbating teenager that sets the condition for him to come quickly in order not to be caught masturbating can grow up having the problem of quick ejaculation.

2. Past Sexual Traumas

If one had a terrible sexual experience at a much early age, he can grow up with sexual anxieties that tend to last a lifetime. Such experiences can range from sexual abuse to being caught while masturbating.

3. Upbringing

Men who grew up with strict upbringing, where sexual activities were only believed to be right after marriage, may be unable to relax during sex, or may still hold on to that belief that sex is some kind of sin or wrong behavior.

4. Medical Causes

Some physical causes of this condition include multiple sclerosis, high blood pressure, diabetes, thyroid problems, being on recreational drugs, consumption of too much alcohol.

5. Psychological Causes

Some common psychological causes include stress, unresolved problems, depression, sexual anxiety bothering on ability to satisfy ones partner or following some sexual malfunctions in the past, emotional conflicts, etc.

I hope you found the content above a bit helpful for your question.

+10 votes
answered Feb 27, 2019 by Traci (970 points)
edited Jun 1, 2019
Why do some guys come so fast? It may probably be their first time. They are used to masturbating with their hands, so it feels much better when someone else is doing the touching. Men, especially teenagers who have not had sex prior to this encounter are likely to come too quickly in excitement and anxiety.
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answered Jul 29, 2018 by Elaine (1,110 points)
edited Aug 13, 2019
Almost 40% of men suffer from the problem of premature ejaculation worldwide.

The problem can be a medical problem, but most times, it is simply as a result of over excitement that makes them go into the vagina much too quickly without adequate foreplay. Engaging in longer foreplay is said to delay ejaculation longer.  According to several sex studies, an average guy will come after 3 or 4 mins.
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